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You have discovered that your partner is cheating or you suspect that he is cheating so what do you do now? Before you go and confront him you need to make sure you are on target with your suspicions. The last thing you want to do is confront him without any proof to back up your claims. Learn about the signs of cheating and how to verify that he really is being untrue.

Common Signs of a Cheater

There are many different signs of a cheater. It can help to familiarize yourself with the common signs of a cheater if you are looking to catch your partner cheating. Here are some things to watch out for:

1. He starts to find fault with you. Perhaps he starts nitpicking about how you look or he starts being annoyed with the little habits of yours he used to find cute.
2. He loses interest in doing things at home. He is more interested in getting away from home.
3. Your sex life changes. It can either pick up or slow down. The thing to look for is an odd change that happens suddenly.
4. Watch for financial issues, such as unexplained expenses. Also watch to see if his checks seem smaller than usually or if he says he is been working over time and the checks are the same.

Verifying Suspicions

After you start to notice signs that he is cheating you need to start verifying your suspicions. This involves gathering evidence. You may have to start monitoring his cell phone, his bank account or even checking up on his where abouts.

This involves being sneaky yourself. You have to go undercover and beat him at his own game. Uncover the lies and get to the bottom of things while gathering evidence you can use to confront him with.

Confrontation

The confrontation is not going to be easy. You have to be well prepared. If you are not ready then it could end up being a huge blame game where nothing is resolved.

You want to have evidence and you need to be ready to counter any excuses he will try to give you. It is going to involve a lot of work on your part, but to get to the truth you have to give him no option but to confess.