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Let me get rid of one of the biggest misconceptions guys have when it comes to sex and their partners. You know those sex toys she’s hiding in her nightstand? They don’t have to replace you. In fact, believe me, your woman would much rather have you inside her than any old piece of plastic. There’s plenty you can give her that she just can’t get from a dildo or a vibrator.

Unfortunately, lots of guys end up viewing their partners’ sex toys (or sex toys, in general) as a threat and they miss out on a golden opportunity to give their women some intense pleasure by combining two of her favorite things: you and her sex toy. In lots of ways, this is the best threesome she could ever hope for and if you’re serious about becoming an even more amazing lover then now is the time to learn how to master the power of the sex toys.

First, let’s talk about your sex toy arsenal. If your partner doesn’t have any toys lying around or she has them so well hidden you’ve never seen them, then you’re going to need to find a good store where you can find some. Now I know this can be a little embarrassing if it’s your first time picking out dildos or rings, but remember getting rid of your inhibitions is an important step to taking your bedroom fun to a higher level. Of course, if you’re too nervous to shop in person, you’ll find plenty of great stores online which sell everything you need.

Now what exactly do you need? I would definitely suggest a vibrator. Dildos can be work, but you’ll find a vibrator is going to be more useful. You’ll probably want something small so it will be easier to handle. Make sure you also buy some high quality lubricant. You want the vibrator to slide inside of her easily without causing uncomfortable friction that’s not a turn on at all.

Don’t hesitate to look around and pick out some other handy items, too. Cock rings are great if you want to be able to hold your erection longer and many of them have built-in vibrators which can increase the pleasure for both of you. Anal beads can be a great toy for both of you. Like a string of pearls, you simply put them inside your partner (or have her return the favor), then slowly pull them out. It’s a very sensitive area full of nerve endings and the gentle pressure from the beads feels amazing, especially if you use a little lubricant.

Once you have collected your arsenal of sex toys, you’ll need to know how to use them. In fact, you can use them at almost stage of your bedroom fun.

During foreplay, run the vibrator over her breasts or her inner thighs. The vibration will excite all of those sensitive nerves and will make her tremble with excitement for you. You could also use it to tease her a little by sliding inside her just a little then pulling it out again. When she begs you to go deeper (and she will!) you know it’s time to pull out the real thing.

Once you’re in the moment, a well-placed vibrator can almost guarantee that she’ll climax. The problem for many women is that it’s difficult for a man’s penis to hit her clitoris in just the right way to bring her to orgasm. Some women can have vaginal orgasms with just penetration, but don’t rely on that possibility. Clitoral orgasms are usually stronger and longer, so they are much more prized by your woman.

You can slide the vibrator inside her along with your penis or while you’re giving her oral sex. If you have a vibrator designed for the anus, you can have that in place during almost any type of penetration and it will be sending intense shock waves through the lower part of her body. You might even be lucky enough to hit her G-spot and send her to the moon with ecstasy!

After you’ve both climaxed, you don’t necessarily have to call it a day. Bring out the vibrator and use it to bring her to orgasm two, three, four, even five more times. When you can make her have multiple orgasms, you’ll definitely shoot right to the top of her list of the world’s greatest lovers.

Just remember to keep your sex toys clean. Never use them on different body parts or people without thoroughly cleaning them first. You don’t want to ruin all of the intense fun the two of you are going to share.