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When was the last time you had a boyfriend or even just date?

(Cricket sounds)

I know…I know.

Not having someone to share great times with, someone who sticks with you when the going gets tough, and loves isn’t the most exciting thing. Not to mention this is made worse by the fact that all of your lady friends have found great partners.

Lonely, indeed it is.

BUT before you wail and think that you will spend the years to come all by yourself, let me assure you this: finding the right partner can be learned.

All it takes are well-outlined steps to get a boyfriend. And let’s NOT forget that you should apply these steps.

No amount of passive reading, no matter how many reams of pages, can make up for taking action.

Enough of the talk, let’s bring these 100% logical and practical steps to get a boyfriend that will surely land you on the partner that perfectly matches you.

Let’s have a look.

Steps To Get A Boyfriend 1: Learn to love yourself before anybody else.

Learning to love yourself is the GREATEST love of all, as a line in a song goes and, time and again, that has been proven to be true beyond a seed of doubt.

I mean think about it - how will someone like you if you disgust at yourself?

So instead of whining all day about how the girl on the next block looks way better than you are, or how much weight you’ve gained for the past couple of weeks, learn how to find your strong points.

It all boils down to what you believe.

Are you thinking you are not gorgeous enough to get a date or a boyfriend?

Trust me on this. Just take a stroll at the mall and you’ll see that a lot of couples are just average (or even a notch lower than average) at the looks department yet they’re doing great!

Steps To Get A Boyfriend 2: Know what kind of guy you want to attract.

This part is about goal-setting. How will you strike and seek the guy you want when it’s NOT clear what type of guy you want in the firs place?

It makes sense, doesn’t it?

So grab a pen and paper. Start listing down the qualities you want in the guy you’d be dating and you better be detailed with it. Sure, you can include physical attributes, BUT focusing on his characters and his attitude should be a priority.

Steps To Get A Boyfriend 3: Last BUT not the least, be approachable.

Approaching alone is a HUGE challenge for most guys, and putting on a don’t-come-near-me face can ward off even the most confident guys out there. Put up a smiling face that will warmly welcome anyone hwho wants to stir an interesting conversation.